DavidCare: Prostate Cancer Survival & Support

Published on September 22, 2021

Last updated 12:22 PM September 22, 2021

There’s no question that David Moffett is a tough guy.

Having served as a Marine and law enforcement officer, he’s been a pillar of strength, both for his family and within the greater community. But after conquering prostate cancer with the help of Wellstar, David has found a new calling: supporting other men going through the same difficult diagnosis.

Since his recovery, David’s been on a mission to break barriers in men’s health. He has started a prostate cancer support group to teach a new meaning of “strength” and help men feel empowered to take charge of their health.

“Being a husband, father and grandfather, people have always looked to me as a leader. I am used to being the protector and being strong,” David said.

“Through my experience with prostate cancer, I’ve learned a man’s greatest strength is vulnerability. You don’t have to be Superman — being yourself and becoming your best advocate are enough,” he said.

With expert care and support from Wellstar, David redefined his role as a protector and learned to prioritize his own well-being too. Now, he’s spreading the message for other men to do the same.

Early detection is key

Unlike a lot of men, David never misses his annual wellness exam. Working as an Operations Coordinator at Wellstar, he knows the important role preventative care plays in overall wellness.

During his routine check-up with Wellstar Family Medicine Physician Dr. Thomas Gearhard in 2019, David’s prostate-specific antigen (PSA) level was taken.

With just a simple blood draw, a PSA test can reveal the presence of prostate cancer or other health conditions, such as an enlarged prostate. When David’s test results revealed an elevated PSA level, Dr. Gearhard referred him to a urologist right away.

There, a nodule was discovered in David’s prostate. Following a biopsy, he was diagnosed with Stage II prostate cancer.

“Finding out that I had prostate cancer was devastating,” he said.

But David didn’t have to go through the battle alone. It wasn’t long before he found a trusted health partner in Wellstar Urologist Dr. Paymon Nourparvar. The pair formed a lasting bond as they both worked together to fight prostate cancer.

“Dr. Nourparvar was a blessing. He became like family to me,” David shared. “There was no question he wouldn’t answer, and no question we couldn’t ask. He made me feel like I could open up and talk about the journey I was on.”

Having an open dialogue with patients is a key part of Dr. Nourparvar’s care philosophy. Because he knows not one person is exactly alike, he always takes a personalized approach with every patient.

“There are a wide variety of treatments for people with prostate cancer, and there’s not a one-size-fits-all approach to it,” Dr. Nourparvar explained. “I treat all my patients how I would like my family to be treated. I tailor all of my recommendations and treatments through that lens.”

Based on David’s age, physical health and lifestyle, Dr. Nourparvar felt surgery was the right path forward to treat prostate cancer. However, Dr. Nourparvar wanted to arm him with a breadth of knowledge to make the right choice for his body.

That’s why Dr. Nourparvar encouraged him to get a second opinion with a radiation oncologist — so David could know all the facts before committing to a care plan.

After hearing both treatment plans, David felt empowered to make an informed decision to treat the prostate cancer.

“Dr. Nourparvar was very transparent and made sure he had all the information to choose the right treatment path for me,” David shared. “Then, when my wife and I made the decision that surgery was our best option, I felt like I could make the right choice for my situation.”

It’s time [for men] to have real conversations. Go to the doctor, get your physical and be open about your family history. It’s important.

- David Moffett

Wellstar Prostate Cancer Survivor

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Support from all sides

Moving from preventative care to diagnosis to treatment was simple and seamless. When patients like David need specialized care, Wellstar ensures patients have access to cutting-edge treatments and expert physicians within the same network.

“Wellstar Health System allows a patient to be screened for prostate cancer from a young age by their primary care physician,” Dr. Nourparvar said. “Then, if there are any concerns in the screening, they can be seen by a urologist fairly quickly, and go on to get a diagnosis and treatment all within the system.”

David received a robotic prostatectomy, a high-tech treatment where the prostate is removed robotically by a surgeon. Because only a few small incisions are made with this surgical approach, the state-of-the-art procedure helps reduce scarring and pain, has the potential to preserve nerves as well as speeding up recovery time.

In fact, nearly all patients who receive a robotic prostatectomy are able to go home in less than 24 hours. Before being discharged, Dr. Nourparvar and his whole care team made sure David was on the road to recovery and still checked in often.

“After surgery, Dr. Nourparvar was the first person to stop and see me. It meant a lot to me,” David said, recalling the special moment. “The relationship I have formed with Dr. Nourparvar and the clinical team is very important to me.”

Fighting prostate cancer is a team effort, and no one knows that better than David’s wife, Marjane´. Along with the medical team’s support, Marjane´ was there by his side through it all.

“She is my backbone and has helped me through everything,” David said. “It’s not just the men going through this journey. It’s their spouses, their children, their support system — it’s a team effort.”

As a part of Wellstar’s Surgical Services team, Marjane´ is well versed in providing PeopleCare to patients every day. She was proud David could receive the same level of world-class level of care when he needed it most.

“As a team member in the health system, I’ve seen firsthand how care is provided at Wellstar,” Marjane´ said. “I believe Wellstar offers world-class healthcare to everyone we serve, whether it’s a team member or the patients we see on a daily basis.”

She supported her husband through treatment and recovery, never losing hope that everything would be okay in the end. The strong faith David and Marjane´ share even led them to turn their health experience into a way to support others.

Hope for other men

David’s personal journey with prostate cancer marked the start of a new one: helping other men fight back against prostate cancer.

“After my recovery, I felt like I had to do something to help others,” he said.

Since defeating prostate cancer, he has started a support group to encourage men with the same diagnosis. He strives to be the voice that men of all ages need to hear.

While David was growing up, several male figures in his life dealt with prostate cancer — but he only found out about their diagnoses after his own.

“My family members felt like they couldn’t talk about their prostate cancer experiences, so I never knew I had a history in my chart,” David said. “Now, I’m making sure to have those conversations with my son, grandson, nephews and loved ones.”

But David’s not only breaking the silence about prostate cancer with his family. He’s started a support group that helps men face prostate cancer with confidence.

“As men, we often internalize things and feel like we can’t talk about our issues, including health concerns. The more we open up and talk about our real issues, the more it helps the next person,” he explained.

At his prostate cancer support group held monthly at the Wellstar Development Center, David tackles difficult subjects about the disease, including how it may affect intimacy and personal relationships, so there is less stigma.

“I am having an open dialogue about the issues affecting men, so other people know they’re not alone. I want to be an advocate not just for myself, but for others as well,” David said.

For one group meeting, he even set up a date night event — complete with candles and soft music — to encourage couples to share their experiences in a safe, comfortable setting.

His efforts have had a major impact on men in the community who are dealing with the challenges of prostate cancer. The regular meetings and supportive atmosphere have allowed other people to open up and start conversations about the disease.

However, David still believes the most important discussions men should have are with their medical providers.

“Men always talk about sports and their stories from the past, but it’s time to have real conversations,” David said. “Go to the doctor, get your physical and be open about your family history. It’s important.”

Marjane´ echoed the same sentiment. “If you don’t go, you don’t know. Cancer and other diseases can be caught early. It’s up to you to schedule an appointment with your physician to get checked.”

As a prostate cancer survivor, David’s work has inspired dozens of men to get real about their health. But he’ll never forget the support he got from Wellstar along the way.

“I’m cancer-free, and I’m blessed.”

For more information about David's prostate cancer support group, email [email protected].

Don’t smoke or vape

If you are a smoker, keep in mind that there are both short-term and long-term benefits to quitting. One to nine months after the last cigarette, your shortness of breath should decrease. Within 10 years of quitting, a former smoker's risk of developing lung cancer is 30% to 50% below that of a person who continues to smoke.

Also, if you don’t smoke, do not pick up the habit. Nicotine is highly addictive, even more so than many other drugs including narcotic opiates, according to Wellstar Pulmonologist Dr. Hitendra Patel.

Dr. Patel said that vaping is gaining popularity, especially among younger people. However, vaping irritates a person’s airways and increases their risk of asthma.

“Nothing but air should go in and out of the lungs,” Dr. Patel said. “Any other chemical or substance, or inhalation of smoke of any kind, is going to be detrimental and harmful.”

Wellstar Primary Care Physician Dr. Jignesh Dholaria said misinformation about vaping is common.

“People have the notion that vaping is somehow safer and that it doesn’t have the same chemicals that cigarettes do,” Dr. Dholaria said. “We’re seeing a lot more harmful effects from vaping just because we don’t always know all the chemicals that are in these vapes. That has caused a lot more lung-related injuries.”

Get your exercise and sleep

While staying active is a critical component of overall wellness, it’s especially important to keep your lungs in top shape.

“As you’re breathing in and out, getting rid of carbon dioxide and inhaling more oxygen, that helps your tissues, which helps you feel better overall,” Dr. Dholaria said.

Even if it is raining—or if pollutants are especially high that day and you’re worried about lung irritation—there are ways to get your steps in. Dr. Patel recommends going to an air-conditioned shopping mall or store to get some exercise if being outside is not an option.

“Continuing to exercise to the fullest of your body’s ability is an important step of maintaining whatever lung health you have,” Dr. Patel said. “If you start with healthy lungs, staying on an exercise program and regimen is vital.”

Balance that exercise with some rest, too. Dr. Patel, who is also the medical director of the Wellstar sleep program, said being well-rested can ward off sickness, including some respiratory illnesses.

“If you don’t sleep well, that means your immune system is not going to function as well as it should,” he said.

Try breathing exercises

In addition to getting your sleep, some relaxation and breathing techniques can have benefits for both mental wellness and lung health.

Dr. Patel recommends “4-7-8 breathing,” which involves inhaling for four seconds, holding your breath for seven seconds and then exhaling for eight seconds.

Benefits of breathing exercises may include lower stress and anxiety levels, lower blood pressure and better sleep.

Manage your asthma

If you have asthma, know your lungs and avoid the environmental triggers that cause the condition to flare up, Dr. Patel said. Common triggers include pet dander, seasonal changes, allergens like perfume and smoke inhalation.

Asthma can also run in families, although there is often no specific reason why a person develops asthma, Dr. Patel said.

“Sometimes people underestimate how bad asthma can be,” Dr. Patel said.

If you have asthma, see your primary care physician to monitor your lung health. Pulmonologists specialize in caring for people’s lungs, and they often collaborate with primary care clinicians to create personalized plans to manage their patients’ asthma.

Ask your care team about screenings

Early detection is key in cancer treatment, but many lung cancers present in later stages, Dr. Patel said.

“In that area in the middle of the lungs and the middle of the chest, there are no pain fibers or pain sensors in there,” Dr. Patel said. “If a tumor occurs there, patients don’t know it. They don’t feel it, and it doesn’t hurt them.”

Lung cancer is sometimes found when it spreads and causes complications, Dr. Patel said.

If you are at increased risk for developing lung cancer, ask your care team about screenings. You should consider screenings if you are a current or past smoker. Visit our lung cancer screening page to learn more about if screening, which involves low-dose CT scans, could benefit you. To keep up with your lung health, find a Wellstar physician near you.

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Minimally Invasive Care for an Enlarged Prostate—With Lasting Relief

By Dr. Al Ray, Wellstar urologist

If you’re experiencing urinary symptoms caused by an enlarged prostate, you’re not alone—and effective treatment is available.

Holmium laser enucleation of the prostate (HoLEP) is a minimally invasive procedure used to treat benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), a condition in which the prostate gland becomes enlarged. Using advanced laser technology, HoLEP helps remove prostate tissue that blocks urine flow, providing lasting relief from uncomfortable urinary symptoms.

Understanding BPH

The prostate is a small gland located below the bladder and in front of the rectum. As men age, it can enlarge and obstruct the urethra—the tube that carries urine out of the body.

This can lead to symptoms such as:

Frequent urination
Difficulty starting or stopping urination
Weak urine stream
Urinary retention (feeling that the bladder doesn’t completely empty)

How HoLEP works

During HoLEP, your surgeon uses a holmium laser—a precise and powerful tool—to carefully remove the prostate tissue causing the blockage.

The tissue is separated into sections (called lobes), broken into smaller pieces and removed from the bladder. Because the procedure is performed entirely through the urethra, no external incisions are needed—making it less invasive than traditional surgery.

Benefits of HoLEP

HoLEP offers several important benefits, including:

Less bleeding: The laser minimizes bleeding, making it a safer option for many patients, including those on blood thinners.
Lasting results: Studies show HoLEP provides durable relief of BPH symptoms, with a recurrence rate of less than 1%.
Stronger urinary flow: Most patients notice significant improvement in urinary flow and comfort.
Effective for large prostates: HoLEP works well for men with larger prostates that may not be suitable for other minimally invasive procedures.

What to expect

Knowing what to expect before, during and after your procedure can help you feel prepared and confident. Your care team will guide you every step of the way.

Anesthesia: HoLEP is performed under general anesthesia.
Procedure time: Typically lasts one to two hours
Hospital stay: Most patients go home the same day.
Recovery: Some mild discomfort or urinary symptoms—such as frequent urination, temporary incontinence or urgency—may occur for a few weeks while healing.

After surgery, a catheter may be placed for one to two days to help with urination while your prostate heals. It’s normal to see a small amount of blood in your urine during this time. Once the catheter is removed in the office, many patients no longer need medication to manage prostate symptoms.

While rare, potential risks include infection, temporary urinary incontinence or urethral stricture (narrowing of the urethra). Most men recover fully and experience excellent long-term results.

Is HoLEP right for you?

HoLEP may be a good option if you have moderate to severe BPH symptoms that haven’t improved with medication, or if you have a larger prostate that isn’t suitable for other procedures.

It’s a safe, highly effective way to relieve symptoms caused by an enlarged prostate—with no incisions, minimal bleeding and a faster recovery.

To learn more about prostate care and other urology services, visit wellstar.org/urology.

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Greg Rodgers with his wife ringing the cancer bell

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GregCare

Picture a big swath of land out in West Georgia. It’s a little wild and a little cultivated, but it’s well cared for thanks to the Rodgers.

“My wife and I are blessed to live on this land,” Greg Rodgers said. “God instructs us to be good stewards of the land and we are dedicated to doing just that. We’re always mowing, planting and tending to fallen trees.”

Photo collage of Greg Rodgers on a tractor and his land

Much like their acreage, Greg sees his body as something that deserves to be maintained with care. And he’s an advocate that other men do the same. Seeing a doctor regularly and getting screened can help identify conditions earlier so they’re more treatable. Greg learned that from his personal experience with prostate cancer, and the team at Wellstar West Georgia Medical Center who helped him overcome it.

“It’s not so much my story as the story of the professionals at Wellstar—they’re tremendous people,” he said.

The right tests for an accurate diagnosis

Prostate health is not something to ignore. Greg understands this now after a routine PSA test—a simple blood test—came back abnormal in 2020. When PSA levels are checked regularly and rise over time, they can be a sign of prostate cancer.

Because of his elevated PSA, Greg began monitoring his prostate health and eventually, connected with Wellstar Urologist Dr. Richard Jadick in LaGrange. Dr. Jadick performed a UroNav fusion biopsy to investigate his climbing PSA. During the procedure, an MRI helps accurately target the biopsy location. This biopsy has a low false negative rate, meaning the results are more trustworthy than in the past. Greg’s results came back positive for prostate cancer.

Pursuing personalized, expert care

Because every case of prostate cancer is different, there are a range of options for treating it, from active surveillance (monitoring with imaging) to advanced treatments like robotic surgery and targeted radiation therapy that have fewer side effects than traditional treatments.

Greg and Dr. Jadick discussed several options, but before Greg made any decisions, Dr. Jadick recommended he see Dr. Robert Taylor, a Wellstar radiation oncologist.

Greg remembers having reservations about radiation therapy. But once he arrived for the appointment, he felt immediately at ease. “Dr. Taylor is a quiet, confident person with a kind smile,” he said. “He was really good at explaining everything, going through studies and the different procedures. He’s so methodical, so good at answering questions and so patient.”

The option they settled on was a high dose of targeted radiation aimed at the prostate during a shorter treatment course (20 days versus 44). A newer technology called SpaceOAR Hydrogel would separate the rectum from the prostate during treatment, preventing unnecessary radiation exposure—and side effects.

“When it comes to choosing the right treatment, everything is a balance between the risk level and a variety of other personal factors,” Dr. Taylor said. “We want to provide treatment that is the least disruptive and most effective.”

To be sure this was the best plan for Greg, Dr. Taylor requested a second opinion from Mayo Clinic. Wellstar experts have a direct connection to Mayo Clinic specialists through its Mayo Clinic Care Network membership. Wellstar physicians and patients can access eConsults—virtual second opinions—at no additional cost to patients.

Some additional imaging was recommended, which validated Dr. Taylor’s treatment plan. Greg moved forward with his cancer treatment with pure confidence.

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